She still keeps in contact with many of them. There's a wink feature, similar to a poke on Facebook, that you can use to flirt with other members without having to formulate a written message. OkCupid is well-designed and pretty fun to use. There's even a leader board for multiple friends to compete to see who has the best matchmaking skills, so it really is fun for the whole group.
As you could have expected from the fancy-sounding name, EliteSingles is the most expensive of the bunch but we say worth it.